When someone passes, there are often a frantic few days of planning compounded by stress and grief. Many families in these very early days have limited emotional capacity to coordinate their ideal service. Enter celebrants: individuals who can take care of the details required to create a memorable ceremony. 

The role of a celebrant

Celebrants are sensitive and respectful individuals who collaborate with family members closely to ensure the ceremony is personalized to your needs. The time spent discussing ideas offers an opportunity for family members to share stories, connect, rekindle relationships, and begin to heal. A celebrant can identify ways for family members to contribute or participate in the ceremony as well. Ultimately, they work with you to create a reverent space to reflect and honour your loved one. 

What a celebrant can help with

Celebrants work closely with you to:

• Create a schedule of the event’s commemoration activities

• Write a eulogy that portrays the individual as an authentic story rather than an itemized resume

• Coordinate an obituary and/or memorial program

• Brainstorm ideas to honour the person being remembered

• Prepare for a ceremony of any kind, including ash scattering

• Host and emcee a service

What a celebrant cannot help with

Celebrants are not generally event planners. Most celebrants don’t book catering, venues and AV equipment; manage liability forms, insurance and liquor licenses; or procure flowers, keepsakes and items for you. Celebrants often know, though, how to access these items or can recommend suppliers in planning.

Ideas for celebrating loved ones

Celebrants can help your family identify meaningful activities. Here are some examples of elements that could be incorporated:

• Readings, poems

• Guiding words

• Music

• Keepsakes

• Nature

• Media

• Tributes 

• Open mic

• Stories

• Favourite memories

• Prayer

Ritual events

Ceremonies can be formatted in whichever way makes the most sense for the family and loved ones grieving. For some, that may mean the remains are not present, or that time and space are allowed between death and the hosting of a service. 

These are some of the commemoration events an end of life celebrant can help you prepare for:

• Wake/vigil

• Graveside service

• Celebrations of life

• Scattering ceremonies 

• Anniversary remembrance gathering

• Ceremonies

• Memorial services

• Funeral services

• Home funerals

• Farewell service

Living celebrations of life are a recent phenomenon that often precede medically assisted death or that are a result of an expected terminal passing. The person being honoured has an opportunity to provide input and participate in their ceremony to say farewell.

Learn more at pineboxfunerals.ca/celebrant-officiant.

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